Thanks for the reply. I'm always interested in what wakes people up. From what I've seen it can be just about anything. With me the meeting went first. I was still a JW in parts of my mind but couldn't stand going to the meeting. I would do anything to avoid going to them.
My wife is also still a JW so I can understand the frustrations associated with that.
If I were you I'd smoke a little of you wife's pot be for going to the meetings to make them a little more tolerable.